Once upon a time there lived an old man. This old man would easily be described as a
patriarch really and at the time this particular story begins he had many
sons, a daughter and very many grandchildren too. His sons and daughter were all living out of
the home they grew up in, the home where the old man still lived.
During holiday get togethers, where all the sons and the daughter
gathered in the home of their childhood, the old man was happy to have all of
his children and his children’s children under the same roof. Nothing warms a patriarch’s heart more than
to have all of his descendants gathered together to share meals, tell stories
and embrace each other as the times where this occurred were far too rare
indeed and not taken for granted. This
story is about my Grandpa Prewitt. His
name was Euel Lavelle Prewitt. Or maybe it’s
about me. I don’t know…I feel compelled
to share it because I feel it is about more than the Prewitt family
Well our family is not perfect. To a one each of us have faults and imperfections. We are unique individuals bound together by blood. Our uniqueness lends to different perspectives in same scenarios and sometimes family arguments. Sometimes heated. Is your family like this? I expect so. A family that loves deep does so with passion and sometimes passion has a flipped side of the coin. Thank God though that we don't have to be perfect. What pressure that would be to wake up everyday and hope not to screw up that precedented perfection. So sometimes these family get-togethers ended up being pressure cookers for conflict. And beautiful gatherings sometimes ended with anger. But in a loving family anger
toward a family member is very heavy so there was always yearning for it all to be OK
too and a desire to forgive. God created us this way.
But for the Patriarch there was only ever one feeling not mixed feelings. He had never held anger toward his descendants. He did not hold a grudge. He only ever wanted them all to come back again and do it all over again the next available holiday. He encouraged his children and his children's children in the same direction.
He did not want judgment or repercussions or consequences. He only wanted them to love each other as they loved him. I am not making this up.
My Grandpa Prewitt passed away 7 years ago this June. It was June 16, 2007. And even though time passes, when I think of
him I still wish I had more time with him.
He was a gentle loving grandfather.
He had so many stories. I never
cared as much about the stories as the songs he made up and sang to us all the
time. He was silly and had a great deep
laugh that was contagious. A great smile
too. I wish now I had listened to the
stories and asked for more of those.
At the time of his death I had not been a church goer. I had a church splitting experience when I
was still a teenager and religious doubt took a deep seat in my heart for an
extended period of time. Amazingly enough,
it was his death, his funeral and his life that brought me to an about face. It was another time that all of his
descendants were gathered under one roof.
And while his death was not a joyous cause for celebration, a look over
his life gave a lot to smile about.
The way my Grandfather was celebrated, the stories of how he lived and
how much he loved God and the way my aunt’s church supported the family it
quickly became apparent that there was something I had been missing out on.
Specifically at the viewing in the funeral home, before they generally opened
the doors and it was just family in the room, I felt really overcome as if love
just washed over me. I felt filled with love; I felt it pelting my all over my back
and over my head as I stood by my grandfather in his casket with all of my
family behind me. I felt it radiate up my arm as I reached for my grandmother. The words, “God is Love” from scripture 1 John 4:16 (and others) filled my
head. I realized that I had doubt about
trusting something I could not prove, but that even though I couldn’t see love I had no doubt that it was
real. None at all. I got to be a small
part of a big family where love was real, big and so great it was almost
tangible. I realized how blessed I was.
Of course as part of my being a baby Christian recalling this story
brings me back to the foundations of my faith. A Patriarch who loves to have
his family gathered to share. Share life, love and joy but also to comfort each other in pain and greif. A Patriarch who does not count transgressions,
but instead is set, even at personal risk, in favor of forgiveness and
unification of his family. His love for us was never in question.
Like Whoa!! I know not everyone believes that there is any significance in dreams, but all who know me know that mine stay with me. When I get caught up in pettiness or things of this world with all of its stuff, it is that truth that grounds me. I am not in pursuit of earthly treasures that only serve myself. Or I don't want to be anyway.
It is because of my Grandfather that I totally get it God. I know how you love me and that love is what you want from me, for you and for my brothers and sisters. A love like that is to be treasured and sought after and modeled. It is the best thing to strive for. We lifers here on earth all get caught up in seeking things that are fleeting. Not fleeting is the great feeling you get from serving others and loving others and forgiving others or smiling at everyone! I can't go back now and hear and pay attention to more of my Grandfathers stories but I can get into your word and know this loving father better.
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| This photo taken nearly three years after Grandfather passed away. All of us together again. Memorial Day 2010 |
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| Me and Grandpa taken at his and Grandma's 50th Wedding Anniversary celebration. |
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| Grandpa and Grandma with their sons and daughter. |
Emaleigh had a great time too but she was less interested in Zoe and much more interested in Ziggy, my dog nephew and Zoe's big brother. I wish I had a better picture of him but he did not like the red eye on my point and shoot camera. I will replace this photo when I get a better photo from Jenny, hint hint.
And then she definitely soaked up some Aunt Jenny and Uncle N8 love too.
Ofcouse we managed to get one rare pictire of Jenny, Dawn and I all together. It has been so long since we were all together. I think it was at my wedding four years ago. I hope we will be able to update this photo sooner than four years from now. The trip was quick and the visits were both entirely too short, but I am glad that I got out there anyway. Sometimes you take a day for a trip you'd prefer to bee a week long just because that week never comes along. Maybe at the end of 2010 we can all reconvene in a mountian town to chase all of our toddlers plus one more from Texas in the snow.
Olivia Llewelyn Baltera was born on May 13, 2009 at 4:19 pm.
Amy's baby is due this month so mom has been in the US for a couple of weeks helping with last minute preparation and just general everday things to try to make Amy's life easier. Mom is thrilled that she is greeting two new grandchildren within the next month or so. Jenny's due at the end of this month.
Pregnant women are so beautiful.
Lucas eventually got restless watching the game and went over to the lawn over the outfield fence to throw his ball at kids hoping they would catch it and throw it back to him.
Mom tried several times to get a picture of me and EMaleigh smiling together. We had to compromise because little Em was not happy without her teether.
Never enough girls.
